Proud to be an Indian
Today is 15th August, India’s independence day. We are moving to 63rd year of independence. When I look back and see, I feel we have developed a lot in terms of science and technology, space technologies, satellite communication, medicine, defence capabilities and the way of life as a whole. But certainly we still have a way long to go ahead. I always feel proud to call myself an Indian. But at times when I see something very bad happening, I feel is it this independent nation that Mahatma Gandhi fought for. We definitely paid a huge price for independence but just being independent is not enough. Only independence will not help and rather we need to be codependent on each other.
Last night I was talking to my friend Mudit and was sad to hear a revealing. The very evening Mudit went to the railway station to see off his fiancee. While in his return when he crossed the main entrance of the station, he found an old lady lying down on the side of the road. He got curious and asked people around about her whereabouts as she did not look a homeless lady. Everyone there was ignorant of her and no one knew why she is lying there. Someone said that she was there since morning. After an examination Mudit found that she was dead.
He was startled at the finding and so decided to call the cops. He looked around and found 2-3 cops on the other side of the road. He tried to convince them what he saw and experienced. But those cops where from Railway Police and simply said that the area is out of their jurisdiction. And probably since it was an eve of Indian independence day, the city cops might be busy with the preparations and security checks. But does that mean we have become so cold blooded that we do not feel what is happening around.
This guy finally could do nothing except being shocked, astonished, sad and frustrated. Like other average everyday Indian, he left the spot…
There might be n number of cases like this throughout India. Why have we become so insensitive towards such situations? Why people fail to take responsibilities? It is only because we feel independent, not codependent. We are an ecosystem and we need to co-exists. Neither the cops nor the passers by even thought of looking at the old lady who kept lying down there at the road side. There could be many reason for why she was dead. The city is fighting H1N1 and we are counting each death. Today when I am writing this article the death toll is 23 due to H1N1 but no one is counting the deaths due to other reasons. There could be more than 100 people dying for no reason.
Mudit was very sad and felt so guilty. He said to me that he cannot sleep as the face of the old lady keeps coming to him. We together had nothing to do except to write this and let you all know about this. I told him to go and sleep like every timid, courageless, self-respectless, shameless, irresponsible Indian. And wake up tomorrow morning and salute the national flag and wish everyone a Happy Independence Day and again go to sleep. And every other morning keep saying to people around you – I AM PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN




August 15th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Excellent article Amar. You highligted a very good point to us ‘we feel independent not codependent’. Certainly this is a root of such incidents. Can I say at first we need to make changes in our moral philosophy, as we indian think we have a unique values and culture that none other country have.
August 15th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
i think that this is not a fully independent country.
we are independent if all the indian person knows their responsibility and do it well without any selfishness.
August 17th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Wonderful article Amar. The sad and bitter realities have been highlighted.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:07 am
I feel the value of people who are in remote villages even if they are ignorant and illiterate are far better than the people who are urbanite. ‘Life is precious’ is realised by very few people. It is really sad that today everybody tries to transfer rather than owe the responsibility.
August 22nd, 2009 at 11:57 am
Amar, great thoughts, you have provided a new concept of Co-dependence.
One solution for such a problem is that we can call the NGO’s to take the victim to the hospital. There are lot of NGOs which takes care of the funeral of such victim’s.
We should search & share NGO’s information who can help us in these scenarios. NGOs also have links with the city administration & the media hence can be a useful resource in such cases.
August 29th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
i think that this is not a fully independent country.
we are independent if all the indian person knows their responsibility and do it well without any selfishness.;. All the best!!
August 30th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
amar, we will come out of this menatality…we are going strong….we are feeling for each other..yes these incidents are happening in plenty but there is also another side..n tht are people like you and ur frend who feels for our motherland…and believe me..u r not alone…i have seen people offering seat to pldmpeople..helping people who can’t catch train or buses quickly…..don’t worry bro…india will shine…
October 31st, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Well said Amar !!! You have raised a beautiful question for each and every so-called Indian.We need to shoulder responsibilities like few people who made India proud…and not just be proud to be an Indian, thats not enough!!!
Thanks Amar for this wake up call…
May be a sarcastic remark but sometimes it is needed….wake up call you know